Monday, October 8, 2007

青涩的 小弟

那天老弟从 msn 传来了一个部落格的网址,他不安的说是小弟的部落格要我去看看。


September 23
EVERYBODY HATES ME
Why EVERYBODY HATES ME. I cant find a good reason even asking the people who hates me. Why EVERBODY wants to do this to me....... everytime make me feel angry......
They were lucky that I can HOLD MY ANGER AND HATRED.


And also i hate 舅母 and his family espeacially is her son and her youngest daughter.....
So noisy 1
They got astro at their house and they come here and watch TV!!!!!!!!!!
Sometime they ALWAYS MAKE FUN OF ME OR MAKE ME ANGRY ON PURPOSE.
I ALSO FEEL LIKE KILLING THESE KIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!


看了很伤心,没想到小弟的思想那么偏激,他怎么能拿样子说呢,我们一家不是人吗? 真的太没良心了,亏我们一家都那么疼他。老弟知道后的震旦也不小,他忧心忡忡地问我为什么小弟会这样偏激呢,他在学校是不是一直给人欺负呢? 我们该怎么办呢? 我想了想也许是我们和他的年纪相差太远了,也许是他小时候开始,爸妈的关系就越加生疏冷漠,没有我们小时候的星期天家庭日,没有我们以前每年假期时都会有一次的旅行,妈越来越迟归,爸因生意的关系,一年只有少过一半的时间在马来西亚,也可能是下午放在我们家的表弟表妹的狡诈任性和阿姨的偏袒让他受了委屈。越想我就越心疼, 很着急却又不知道该怎么办,想把他写的东西给妈看却又怕妈不能谅解他,结果我跑去向妹妹求助。妹不以为然的说,问题大部分是出在小弟身上,他太自以为是,本性善良却不会替他人着想,性子急说话又不经大脑,明明没有恶意,说出来的话却让人想掐死他,说话又大声,所以常常让人很气恼,不容易和人相处。我们共通的结论是,小弟缺乏交际经验,从小就沉迷电脑,不知道该怎样对待朋友,也不知道该怎么表达自己。


后来,看到老弟和joey 都有尝试在小弟的部落格开导他,我这个大姐比较没用又没胆,不知道该怎么开导他,所以都没有留言过 >.<

Sky=老弟
Joey=老弟的女友
Thong=小弟

由下读起,

Thong
Ops.... type wrg
大欺小会变成小欺大。
October 03 12:17 PM

Thong
O...... you think these kids scare me???
THEY JUST SCARE ROTAN ONLY LA.
IF I 让他们,小欺大,会变成大欺小。
They just see some stranger like you so they be nice la!!!

And my enemy ALSO GO PAY FONG LA!!!!!!!!
They will say EVERYTHING BAD ABOUT ME!!!!
How can i behave more gentle and kind???
October 03 12:12 PM


Joey
did u tell teacher tat they threw rubbish in ur desk?
if u dare ,u could just ask them for the reason they did that to u.
calm down anyway,
or u can think of another way,u going to pay fong soon,right?
then u can have new frens soon,try to behave more gentle and kind to ppl,
let them have good impression on u 1st....


about the 2 naughty kids,just can bear to it,
they are still kids ma,won consider too many things,
everytime i c u scold them i also scare,u very fierce lo
haha...

October 02 4:09 PM


Thong
I want to but i cant!!!!!!!
Everyday they keep throwing rubbish in my desk!!!!
October 01 9:11 AM


Joey
cheer up....thong thong
just behave urself....
no need to feel angry.....

September 29 3:51 PM


Thong
Friends is 10% of my class only (5 or 4 only)
Others all enemy

September 26 11:27 AM


Sky
They maybe just donno you la, you won't have so much enemy one. There would be some friends one rite?
September 26 6:21 AM


Thong
Oh ya~~~~ EVERYBODY IN SCHOOL HATES ME (EXECPT FOR TEACHER)
THEY KEEP SAYING I NOOB OR TOILET BOWL(马桶)
September 25 11:17 AM


Sky
Who hates you? Nobody will hate you.
At least I don't.
Come on~ Don't feel so angry~~

September 24 9:38 PM



桐桐,今年刚好小学毕业了,明年就是中学生了哦,希望你在新的学校里有新的开始。
过去的就不要再想了,在新的学校里,对待朋友要和颜悦色,偶尔被人占一点便宜也不要紧拉,朋友就是互相帮忙的嘛。你要学习开始为朋友付出,人家才会相同以对。
说话要小声点,温柔点,你那么凶,很可怕的列,亏你还长得人模可样的。
不要怕人家说你坏话,你若因为这样就发脾气的话,那些讲你坏话的朋友就会更得意更加喜欢惹你,
你只要做好自己的本分,大家都会看得到的,迟早会还你清白。
若你还是不懂要怎么样开始交朋友的话,不要paiseh, 可以去问二姐,她朋友满天下!

然后hor, 你12岁就开始写blog 了,还用英文写,比在美国读书的gor gor 强leh.
:P
可是hor, 没有人会把家里的电话和地址都老老实实放上 blog 的啦,你若有机会看到我的Blog 的话,记得把家里的电话地址拿下来,okay?

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