青涩的 小弟

那天老弟从 msn 传来了一个部落格的网址，他不安的说是小弟的部落格要我去看看。

September 23
EVERYBODY HATES ME
Why EVERYBODY HATES ME. I cant find a good reason even asking the people who hates me. Why EVERBODY wants to do this to me....... everytime make me feel angry......
They were lucky that I can HOLD MY ANGER AND HATRED.


And also i hate 舅母 and his family espeacially is her son and her youngest daughter.....
So noisy 1
They got astro at their house and they come here and watch TV!!!!!!!!!!
Sometime they ALWAYS MAKE FUN OF ME OR MAKE ME ANGRY ON PURPOSE.
I ALSO FEEL LIKE KILLING THESE KIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

看了很伤心，没想到小弟的思想那么偏激，他怎么能拿样子说呢，我们一家不是人吗? 真的太没良心了，亏我们一家都那么疼他。老弟知道后的震旦也不小，他忧心忡忡地问我为什么小弟会这样偏激呢，他在学校是不是一直给人欺负呢? 我们该怎么办呢? 我想了想也许是我们和他的年纪相差太远了，也许是他小时候开始，爸妈的关系就越加生疏冷漠，没有我们小时候的星期天家庭日，没有我们以前每年假期时都会有一次的旅行，妈越来越迟归，爸因生意的关系，一年只有少过一半的时间在马来西亚，也可能是下午放在我们家的表弟表妹的狡诈任性和阿姨的偏袒让他受了委屈。越想我就越心疼， 很着急却又不知道该怎么办，想把他写的东西给妈看却又怕妈不能谅解他，结果我跑去向妹妹求助。妹不以为然的说，问题大部分是出在小弟身上，他太自以为是，本性善良却不会替他人着想，性子急说话又不经大脑，明明没有恶意，说出来的话却让人想掐死他，说话又大声，所以常常让人很气恼，不容易和人相处。我们共通的结论是，小弟缺乏交际经验，从小就沉迷电脑，不知道该怎样对待朋友，也不知道该怎么表达自己。


后来，看到老弟和joey 都有尝试在小弟的部落格开导他，我这个大姐比较没用又没胆，不知道该怎么开导他，所以都没有留言过 >.<

Sky=老弟
Joey=老弟的女友
Thong=小弟

由下读起，

Thong
Ops.... type wrg
大欺小会变成小欺大。
October 03 12:17 PM

Thong
O...... you think these kids scare me???
THEY JUST SCARE ROTAN ONLY LA.
IF I 让他们，小欺大，会变成大欺小。
They just see some stranger like you so they be nice la!!!

And my enemy ALSO GO PAY FONG LA!!!!!!!!
They will say EVERYTHING BAD ABOUT ME!!!!
How can i behave more gentle and kind???
October 03 12:12 PM


Joey
did u tell teacher tat they threw rubbish in ur desk?
if u dare ,u could just ask them for the reason they did that to u.
calm down anyway,
or u can think of another way,u going to pay fong soon,right?
then u can have new frens soon,try to behave more gentle and kind to ppl,
let them have good impression on u 1st....


about the 2 naughty kids,just can bear to it,
they are still kids ma,won consider too many things,
everytime i c u scold them i also scare,u very fierce lo
haha...

October 02 4:09 PM


Thong
I want to but i cant!!!!!!!
Everyday they keep throwing rubbish in my desk!!!!
October 01 9:11 AM


Joey
cheer up....thong thong
just behave urself....
no need to feel angry.....

September 29 3:51 PM


Thong
Friends is 10% of my class only (5 or 4 only)
Others all enemy

September 26 11:27 AM


Sky
They maybe just donno you la, you won't have so much enemy one. There would be some friends one rite?
September 26 6:21 AM


Thong
Oh ya~~~~ EVERYBODY IN SCHOOL HATES ME (EXECPT FOR TEACHER)
THEY KEEP SAYING I NOOB OR TOILET BOWL(马桶）
September 25 11:17 AM


Sky
Who hates you? Nobody will hate you.
At least I don't.
Come on~ Don't feel so angry~~

September 24 9:38 PM

桐桐，今年刚好小学毕业了，明年就是中学生了哦，希望你在新的学校里有新的开始。
过去的就不要再想了，在新的学校里，对待朋友要和颜悦色，偶尔被人占一点便宜也不要紧拉，朋友就是互相帮忙的嘛。你要学习开始为朋友付出，人家才会相同以对。
说话要小声点，温柔点，你那么凶，很可怕的列，亏你还长得人模可样的。
不要怕人家说你坏话，你若因为这样就发脾气的话，那些讲你坏话的朋友就会更得意更加喜欢惹你，
你只要做好自己的本分，大家都会看得到的，迟早会还你清白。
若你还是不懂要怎么样开始交朋友的话，不要paiseh, 可以去问二姐，她朋友满天下!

然后hor, 你12岁就开始写blog 了，还用英文写，比在美国读书的gor gor 强leh.
:P
可是hor, 没有人会把家里的电话和地址都老老实实放上 blog 的啦，你若有机会看到我的Blog 的话，记得把家里的电话地址拿下来，okay?

9月29日的晚宴 & mapinfo 老友三周年纪念

9月29日是大学朋友yenliy的结婚日。
那天是星期六， 我和许先生拿了半天假，吃了午餐收拾好行李后，大概在中午4点开车上吉隆坡。
我到宴会地点时刚好7时正，但到场的嘉宾只有大概40%。 果然，迟到是华人的"传统美德"啊。

和我同桌的是大学时期的一班好朋友，有 ellen, soo chin, nicholas, hong leong, hui xian 和 ah moon。hui xian 还带男朋友来呢， 这两个人整场都粘在一起，头碰头的小声说，大声笑，热恋中的人真恶心阿。:P ah moon 像个妖怪，越老越漂亮， ellen 难得的没带 hong jun来，可怜的hong jun星期六晚都还在上班， soo chin, nicholas 和 hong leong 还是老样子，连发型都没变哦。哈哈

yenliy 很没良心， 整个晚宴都在忙着招呼亲朋戚友都不怎么理我们这些老朋友，时间果然能冲淡一切，没想到我们的友谊是那么薄弱的。本来晚宴后还想约她俩公婆一起下pub 庆祝的， 但看来她没这个兴趣， 我们也就不去自讨没趣了。

Crystal & Ellen

MMU Gathering Group Photo :P

第二天早上，和许先生跑去 Ikea 看家私，research 一些装修idea for 我们的新家。后来很爱看动物的我就拉了他到楼上的 pet wonderlands 看宠物，竟然看到有一只中国国宝 藏敖在卖哦，太不可思议了，不知道这宠物店是那儿的门路弄到手的。时间大概4点左右时就带了许先生的好朋友，鱼先生一起到 sri petaling 去和mapinfo 的一班老友会合。然后两辆车9个人就上路到 klang 去吃海鲜，顺便庆祝我们相识3周年。

整个聚会都很开心，老实说我跑回马六甲工作后在KL最怀念的就是他们这一班朋友了，大家看起来都还不错，就连刚失恋的lay fen 的气色都是红润润的。可惜 colin 没能出席，少了他的八卦, 不然会更热闹吧。 叽里呱啦的聊了几个小时，精疲力尽的我们才甘愿各自回家休息去。现在大家都在打拼的阶段，下一次的聚会，恐怕就是明年我的婚礼上了。


Mapinfo cuties

9 WORDS WOMEN USE

虽然讨厌自己那么容易被看穿，但老实说，以下的理论还蛮准确的，哈哈。

9 WORDS WOMEN USE

1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm.. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

4. Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5. Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you re an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.

8. Whatever: Is a women's way of sayin F@!K YOU!

9. Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to #3.

September Joke

The Equation:
7 Glance = 1 Smile
7 Smile = 1 Meeting
7 Meeting = 1 Kiss
7 Kisses = 1 Proposal
7 Proposal = 1 Marriage -
And that 1 Bloody marriage has 7777777777777 Problems. So beware of glance!

***

Plan for Future:
Teacher asks children, what do u wish 2 do in future?
Ram: I want 2 b a pilot.
Vinod: I want 2 b a doctor.
Deepa: I want 2 b a good mother.
Ravi : I want 2 help Deepa.

***

Exams:
Exams are like GIRL FRIENDS;
1. Too Many Questions.
2. Difficult to Understand.
3. More Explanation is Needed.
4. Result is always FAIL!

***


Liar:
A man is dying of Cancer.
His son asked him, "Dad, why do you keep telling people you're dying of AIDS?"
Answer: “So when I'm dead no one will dare touch your mom!"

***

Delivered:
Sardar sent a SMS to his pregnant wife.

Two seconds later a report came to his phone and he started dancing. The report said, "DELIVERED".

***

Three Feelings:
What's the difference between stress, tension and panic?
Stress is when wife is pregnant.
Tension is when girlfriend is pregnant, and
Panic is when both are pregnant.

***

Chinese Adam & Eve:
If Adam and Eve were Chinese, we would still be in paradise because they would have ignored the apple and eaten the snake

我老弟 - 在另一个天空下

我有个老弟，今年19岁一根草，身高不祥，体重不祥，相貌堂堂。

今年8月，在几经挣扎后，终于在大家的期盼下，飞往美国爱荷华继续他的大学课程。

老实说，家里出了一个能到国外喝洋水的成员我是顶兴奋的，再加上老弟是以 4.0 的 cgpa 被录取，让我也莫名的骄傲了一下呢。
阿嘛阿公伯伯叔叔姑姑婶婶姨姨舅舅 的兴奋度不下于我，
毕竟老弟是周家第一个被送到那么远的国家深造的。
临出发前，妈领着老弟去和长辈们告别，回来后无顿顿多了好几千块的红包钱， 真是羡煞旁人。

8月12日 一大早的清晨一家都到机场送他，除了老爸刚好在泰国公干没能出席，还有小弟很没义气要睡觉不要送机。
整个场面还好，没有我想象中的忧伤气氛，可能是老弟的一大班朋友都有在不停的搞怪的关系吧。
而且现在skype ， video call 都那么普篇了，想到我20多个小时后又可以看到他的脸了，是真得让我伤心不起啊。



老弟和亲亲女友joey


怪兽一家

老弟， 一路顺风，要乖乖，不要变坏啊 !

生日

今天， 是我的生日
除了一个名牌表，一个蛋糕，就什么也没有了。
乌龟王八蛋，竟然没有花!! 一朵都没有, 一个花瓣也没有 T_T
我都想不起多少年来在生日在情人节没有收到花了!!

真是后悔， 郁闷啊~~~~
许向定!!!! 我真得不是说真的，当初你在我们拍拖第一个情人节送我花被我骂并不是我不喜欢花， 而是当时我们还是穷学生，那些钱可以让我们吃很多顿好吃的食物阿，而且情人节当天买花真得不划算的。我很好很体贴对不对， 不想让你当冤大头花百多块买那些平常只值十几块的玫瑰。

所以现在你收入还可以了，我真的不介意偶尔收到你送来的花的。

我真的真的真的不是不喜欢收到花， 真的真的真的阿~~~~~